Wait for the perfect soul mate !!

A child is father of man, a well known proverb but I think howzat?? A child can be father of his father??? May be because at times a child’s wisdom gives more matured talks than a grown-up adults. Why is it at times when these kiddos speak-up , their words resemble the words that must’ve been spoken already and years and ages ago by someone...some great souls....some great thinkers!! Or may be at times even their gestures remind us of a person..a beloved relative or friend who has passed away. Now if the child who has never seen that person speaks your beloved’s thoughts and acts in the same way as your friend use to ..what does one call this ???
Have YOU ever experienced something may be an event or a conversation which you though has already occurred and is occurring again? Have YOU ever got that sense of Deja-vu? Walking down the lane , a man passes by , you notice him and think I know this guy ,I've seen him somewhere , may be I’ve even spoken to him Or may be not . The guy that passes you is a complete stranger to you in this life.
Yeah ! you read me right this life
Insane, isn’t it? ...past life, reincarnation, déjà-vu!!! Let’s just say these concepts are those which the sane minds aren’t ready to accept. We think modern; such thoughts are far too ancient and too too backward to match up our Einstein brains!
True!!
But isn’t this true that psychology has accepted past life phobias!These phobias that exists in any person’s life making their lives hell and such phobias that need to treated with regression therapy. Well Yes,research is still going on.
There might be more reality shows too selling past life stories to the public and earning their share of profit,but may be ;just may be,not 99% but just 1% of what they show could be true!!
Freud said that there exist two minds conscious & unconscious. Whatever we do not want to remember our minds just pushes it into the bin of unconscious. But this bin that becomes full with traumas & tortures of past & present life calls for serious attention when such pushed away incidences need to be recycled & regressed.
It isn’t necessary that every being should & must& ought to have a phobia. Phobias are a result of traumatic conditions . Some incidences that have worst effect on a person’s psyche &hence that person always wishes to stay away from such situations. It is simple concept of Responsiveness to Stimuli ... when we play with a hot object we burn our hand, next time we come across a hot vessel before we touch it we use a cloth . This is a lesson we carry forward throughout our life and every time before touching a vessel we ensure whether it is hot or not. In similar manner there are incidences of past life , lessons learnt that we carry forward in our present life. Such lessons not necessarily be about phobias. Our traits can also be our lessons from past life-fat, thin,beautiful, ugly, compassion, forgiveness etc. And instead of phobias a person can have recurring problems-physical or mental, like a terrible back-pain,such problems cannot be solved by medications or simple therapies. These problems may have root in past life karmic actions and hence can be healed quicker if regression therapy is followed.
Indian cinema & past life ...this combo has been amusing & entertaining for ages. Reincarnated souls of SRK or Rajesh Khanna & their search to find their lost love & take revenge with a villain to became the cause for their rebirth . Rebirth is because of what remained unaccomplished in our past life-this belief is partially correct. We take birth after birth , have been through many lifetimes. We have been our forefathers and we will our grandchildren . whatever remained unaccomplished we will accomplish it but with an added responsibility. In every birth a person learns something’s about life, it may be anything-learn to love, learn to forgive, learn to LIVE!! Learning these qualities in every lifetime and we reach a point where we have accomplished a reality of equal self, a liberal self, a complete self and here our soul attends a higher plane , a higher level, a promotion, a mastery.
Another aspect of cinema & past life is its love for love . The concept of soul mate!! It is true that there exists soul mates but a person can have many soul mates ... your father , mother, brother, sister, uncles, aunts, friend etc . the list goes on & on. Why is it a stranger comes into your life & gradually becomes someone you really love, you really trust , your really want to be with? The answer is may be he/she was one of your dearest soul mate! Why is it that our behavior varies from friend to friend... one is dear to us while we always feel like avoiding the other? The answer again is may the closest to you is your dearest soul mate . It is not necessary that every soul mate has to have a physical form-flesh & blood. Soul mate can be unborn and yet you witness a strange connection to them. They act as your guardian angel, they are around you, protecting you! And yet we have that perfect soul mate in every life for whom we wait and later for whom we Live!!!